Likable people are invaluable and unique. They network with ease, promote harmony in the workplace, bring out the best in everyone around them, and generally seem to have the most fun. Add these skills to your repertoire and watch your likeability soar!
Too many professionals wrongly believe that being likable comes from natural, unteachable traits that belong only to a lucky few— the incredibly talented professionals.
Wrong. In reality, being likable is under your control, and it’s a matter of emotional intelligence (EQ).
likability can be learned and honed, just like any other skill. Start with these few secrets to become one of those friendly and super-likable people that everyone feels comfortable around and wants to get to know better:
- Have a friendly, open demeanor. One of the most important moments to be more likability in when you introduce yourself to other people. Be aware of how you are presenting yourself to others and do your best to develop an open, friendly demeanor. Let your likable personality shine through and practice opening up, in both verbal and nonverbal ways. Smile. Make eye contact.
- Listen and give attention first, then speak. Act as if the person you are speaking with is the most important person in the world. Practice actively listening to them — really concentrate on what they are saying.
- Don’t look to be in the spotlight. Likable people know it is not about them. They seek to shift the focus to those around them. They know how to praise others without being excessive.
- Be open-minded. Likable people are seen as approachable and personable because they are open-minded and willing to talk to and listen to many different types of people. Be willing to hear others out and get different points of view.
- Say what you mean verbally and nonverbally. One of the most important elements in likability is to make sure that all the nonverbal messages you send the other person are congruent with the actual words that come out of your mouth.
What are your tips of becoming more likable and friendly professional?
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